Thursday, March 11, 2010

fucking with frogs

Dearest Sunday q.,

Do you think you are insecure because you date too much? Or that you date so much because you are insecure?

-Insecure2 in Irvine

hi insecure2 in irvine! haven't had a question in a while. i was wondering if there were anybody out there.

now to answer your obscure question...
what came first the insecure chicken or the insecure egg? i fucking don't know
. i know that i am a tad bit insecure, i'll admit it. 98% secure. 2% insecure. killer odds. but still insecure no less. no doubt, in doubt. within that 2% of insecurity lies, body issues, beauty issues, intelligent issues, all my other issues and last but not least men issues. so i am insecure about a ton of things not just friggin' dudes.

i date a lot, i like men. i was married for quite a while, and the mediocrity of marriage left me numb and socially retarded. now new at dating in my damned thirties i find myself not knowing what the hell i am doing and learning at the same time.
do i believe you have to fuck a lot of frogs to find a prince? i do. when casting for the most important role in your life you don't want just any joe shmo off the streets. you'd be stupid to pick the first guy who read for the part with out seeing the goods of the many others. so in conclusion i date a lot because i date a lot. and i'm insecure, just because, i am and i can be.

LOVE!!!



1 comment:

give me a Q. i'll give you an A.